ok.. this took me the whole friday and i almost went nuts, but i did it...
on the left side is the amplifier board and on the right side the arduinoboy
it didnt work and i resoldered and changed parts (i tried 3 different arduinos) a thousand times, and almost smashed it, but then i found out what was the problem...
the cheap arduino pro mini from ebay didnt support 1.2.3 arduinoboy (or arduino 1.0 software language), so i downloaded arduinoboy 1.2.2 and used one of the older alpha arduino softwares and finally finished my midiboy.