you could just follow the traces back to a solder point, or all the way back to the diode arrays if you needed
check the schematic for the start button's two points, would be as easy as hooking up the switch of your choice at this point. a tact/pushbutton, you could even use the silicone buttons themselves and fashion a button from something (or etch your own with the stuff from ratshack), or just take a broken front PCB and dremel off the start/select part so you could just recycle that part,
you could even use one of the 'common ground' pcbs, and dremel it however you needed. if its just for the one button, you've got two contact points right there. bam
would be much easier than fashioning a new part
edit -- i like your crossfader with two tact switch idea