The best tip I could give is this:
Even if you can't dance, be the most energetic person there. Have fun, people can tell if you're having fun and they'll feed off it. It's awesome if you can do something of substance on stage, but you've already written a bunch of awesome music and it's really about getting people to enjoy themselves, after all. Talking to the audience and being friendly is great, razzing them and being 'mean' can also be great. It's all about the vibe of the room and about your persona or personality, learn to identify the dynamic and play to it. Knowing how to befriend the floor in the span of 4 or 5 minutes is the key to a good live show!
So that being said, anything you want to bring to the table should be adding to how much fun you are having, first and foremost. If you know that you'll go wild with a keyboard solo, go for it! If you think you'd enjoy twiddling knobs, make that your thing! If you would rather crowd surf or pass a mic around the room or fight a guy in a lion costume, those are all perfectly viable. When you're in the studio, it's all about musicianship and composition. Those things are probably as much fun to you as they are to me, or else you wouldn't be here, but when it comes to a live show everyone has fun in a totally different way.
I don't think Jimmy Hendrix would have had much funny getting on stage and pressing play on an 8-track but that's because when he played you could see the love and passion pour out and audience eat that up. That's the whole reason to see a live performance, it's about getting a little bit more than just the music. They already have the music on tape or vinyl or mp3, they want you!
TL;DR: Be the worst dancer there, then nobody will be afraid to dance.
Last edited by jefftheworld (May 13, 2013 9:50 am)