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I'm going to add something to this thread, re: the stage persona idea.

I just played my first live show ever at BRKfest in July.  I am a super mild-mannered wallflower kind of guy.  I am not, nor will I ever be, a spazzy jumping around dude.  Luckily, my music is not very spazzy, so maybe no one expects me to jump around.  I dunno.  ANYWAY.

A few days before the show I randomly decided to wear a short sleeve button up shirt and black tie to perform in.  The idea appealed to me.  On one hand, it seemed silly to get on stage and play music with game boys wearing a tie.  On the other hand, wearing a tie while playing game boy music seemed to say, "I take this stuff seriously."  I liked the duality of it, and it seemed like a costume, in a weird way.  Costumes are great for wallflower-types, as they help you slip into a different role/persona.

I was nervous, but my costume helped put me in a different mindset.  And I was super fortunate, in that like two sets before I went on 5+ dudes were on stage shirtless, so after my opening volley, I made a joke about adjusting my tie instead of taking my shirt off.  The crowd laughed, and the night got easier. 

I didn't jump around (I had given myself a lot to do between multiple game boys and the DJ mixer, so I felt pretty busy on stage), but I did do some hand waving and clapping, and the crowd followed suit.

I guess my point is that if you're perhaps nervous/wallflowery, don't be afraid to adopt a stage persona--it may help, and if you make chill music, don't jump around.  You can wave your hands or clap or something to get the audience locked into the groove.  You don't have to be a spazz on the stage.  Give yourself work to do, when you're not working your gear, do something appropriate.  Maybe it's spazzing out and jumping.  Maybe it's bobbing your head and waving your hands in the air.  Maybe it's adjusting your tie.